Understanding YOur Child and Why some problems happen often:
Assessing Lagging Skills for Better Problem Solving
CAFA TIPS -CPS Part 2 instructor: Corey Jackson www.trueinsightparent.com
(Part 1 of 2) Your explanation for a kid's is challenging behavior has major implications for how you'll try to help. If you believe a kid is challenging because of lagging skills and unsolved problems, then rewarding and punishing may not be the ideal approach.
There are three ways in which adults try to solve problems with kids: Plan A (which is unilateral problem solving), Plan C (dropping the problem completely), and Plan B (that's the one you want to get really good at).